My Hair

          See this is how I actually look like when I do not flatten my hair. My hair is curly/wavey and very puff up! When I don't flatten my hair, I usually have it tied up when I go outside because when I have my hair down (as it looks in the picture) I feel it's horrible let down. I never know what to do with my hair other than straightening out, I refuse to put hair products like hair spray, gel, and mousse because its damaging to hair. There are times I must say I do have my hair let out and put a headband on; then I feel my hair is all over the place, so what do I do? I tie it back up again -____-
       
         I really need to except my hair the way it is and embrace it!